I have, over the years, obviously worked with a ton of people. Some have turned into family and some I tolerated and had a working relationship with and over the years as we have left the jobs, I have run into at different things and we make polite conversation. But on a social basis, it's ok with me if I don't spend time with them. Some only want to discuss their grandchildren, which is ok for a minute, but then really have nothing else to say. We certainly have nothing in common. But sometimes I feel like a jerk if a I'm discussing with a friend something like going out to eat and they want to make it a party and invite people that I don't necessarily view as friends. But they can see the others at a different time right? I'm probably not high on their hit parade either.
Dr Phil says people in your life contribute or contaminate. I think we need a 3rd category. Clutter? Yep, I like it.
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